My daughter is an embarrassment to this family. She's 15 but she dresses like a hooker - huge dangling earings, low cut tight shirts, skin tight pants or hip high skirts - she says everyone dresses like that but I don't see it. Her friends are much more conservative but if I point that out to her she says they are nerds and the guys don't like them. I try to explain how she is devaluing who she is as a person but this seems to be way beyond her. I make rules about how to dress in this house, but there aren't enough things to punish her with for every one of her infractions. I give up! But I've lost all control here. I want this girl to dress properly but don't know how to make it happen.