|
| Anger is a very risky teaching tool. Your upset might convince your daughter that she needs to be more responsible but it is just as likely to teach her that you don't care about her, you don't understand her, you lack compassion, you're not trustworthy, you're not safe, you're not likeable, she's despicable, she's beyond hope, she's worthless, anger is the way to deal with life's most important issues, it is acceptable to hurt people if you want to get a point across and so on and so forth. Instead of using anger as a teaching tool, I suggest you use loving words - you're likely to have a lot more positive impact without risk of extremely negative side-effects. Sarah Chana
|
|
| You should have made her have the baby and let her learn but every time she wanted to do something without the child you say YOU CHOOSE THIS NOT THE BABY!! never abortion!!!
|
